a life in perfect balance

rebecca chapman  - relationship whisperer

Welcome to my Blog

Hey there to you. Welcome to my Margarita-style blog.  We like it salty and sweet here.  Salty language but with sweet truths. Cannot wait to hear if you have any topics you'd like me to cover or even your comments.  Let's do this

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I like it salty and sweet

Deal with narcissistic mother

. Dealing with a Narcissistic mother needs some proven, rock-solid steps and you are in the right place, my new friend. I am so happy we have hooked up. I want to help you start on a journey to finding yourself and, toward living a life that’s yours. One where you take back control from […]

20 Proven Steps To Help You Deal With A Powerful, Narcissist Mother

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end my marriage

I’m going to hit you with a set of clues, and you can decide which one was the decider for my 1st marriage ending: Choosing “Hard to Say I’m Sorry” as our wedding song- the lyrics “everybody needs a little time away” Me saying “It’s not my fault you are such a stupid human being” […]

The Eye-Opening Day Bruce Willis Ended My 10 Year Marriage

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sexless

I had a mouthful of hot lactose-free latte. Strange because I was heading out for brunch with one of my friends. But I can skull a couple of coffees in a row – no problems. We’ve had a Garmin for a couple of months now – I LOVE a gadget. And – my amazing man […]

I spat a mouthful of…

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Dealing with parents

  Dealing with parents. I tell you – I’ve had a week of people having to spend some time with parents that they don’t really want to be around. Not sure if it’s the lockdowns or just life. But – I thought – heck Rebecca (I avoided swearing – did you see that?) – you […]

4 revolutionary steps to take when your parents make you feel like S$$t.

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couple fight blame

  There’s a whole different set of clients that I often see quite often.  Not Jack & Diane from yesterday.   More Mortal Kombat.  God, I loved that game.  I think my computer game addiction began right back in the 90s with the Nintendo, Mortal Kombat and Sonic.  Not so much Atari – that was boring as […]

Do You Fight Like Judge Judy or Mortal Kombat?

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Break up with a Narcissist

One more internet search for “Breaking up with a Narcissist” and you found me – viola – I’ve been waiting for you. Let’s get started.

Really Scared to Get Out of a Destructive Narcissistic Relationship?

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Narcissist Breakup

Narcissist Breakup. Wah Wah Wee Wah. Buckle up. Here we go — you are doing this. I am really excited because we can get down to the nitty-gritty and get you outta there. You might have been scared for months (years). It’s normal to be petrified to the point of shaking, to lose weight, drink […]

Need the Ultimate Checklist for Breaking up with a Clever Narcissist?

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Meditation

    My meditation practice began formally when I was about 14 and stumbled onto it myself.  I was always a bit airy, fairy, woozy, doozy, so I read some books on Spirituality and found a type I could do. In hindsight, a very lucky little camper. I do think sitting high in a tree […]

Trouble meditating? Want some advice on the authentic way to do it?

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