Are you tired of trying to figure out what is wrong with you and just want to start living the life you choose? Not the one other people have chosen for you or that they will approve of.
I never thought that I could stop feeling flawed, stop attracting people who made me feel shitty about myself AND actually start having an amazing life full of loving relationships - all without breaking the bank or losing my mind.
But here I am - and - BOOM - now here you are. I always just message and talk without saying "Hello" first - I was a shy kid who taught herself social skills REALLY badly. So - "HELLO" (halfway down the paragraph - cough)...let's be friends.
I recently moved from a big city to a really small country town in Queensland Australia and my house is about 5 minutes from a beach. Chances are, when I answer you on Insty that that's where I am. Feet in the sand, staring at the ocean and working out whether or not I want to go in. Strange thing here is that the water is really warm - like a bath. To be honest - it can feel a bit creepy on your skin. So - I don't always go in.
I'll have food on my clothes for absolute sure and my care factor about that is a big ZERO.
I'm the mum of 5, stepmum of 2 and nanna of 1. And that means I can't be still 30 which I think I am.
I hate having my photo taken so - that pic up there isn't me. The one down there is.
My superpower is helping people become the best version of themselves. A Relationship Rockstar and Narcissist Whisperer. I work with women to get major upgrades in their relationships, whether it's with themselves, their romantic partner(s), lover(s), friend(s) or family member.
Straight talk, strong coffee, short emails, sleeping and chatting. Books. Cooking. Cookbooks. Calling it what it is. Purple. My kids. My grandkids. Pineapple. World of Warcraft and walking. My friends. Giving the finger sometimes.
Double talk, Weak coffee, Fluffing around, small talk and lying to keep the peace. Porridge (oats) and food that isn't salty enough. The colour Orange. Eeeeh. Controversial I know but - my 70's childhood did me in. Orange overkill.
With my computer on my lap, cooking, trying to work out where to look on a Zoom call, hiding in my bed, hiding Ubereats receipts, dancing - complete with disco ball. Playing the piano and watching lots and lots of true crime. Reality tv (shoot me I know), lying with my head by the speaker - listening to 80's rock.
Strong coffee. Stalking my insta friends. Cooking. Thinking about food. Notice the theme? Wondering if I should Botox. Meditating. Walking a lot - like a lot - Forrest Gump Style and dreaming of the sushi I used to be able to buy in Melbourne. All the food. Food.
I'm Beck, your new get-a-grip friend.
I'm here to help you look at your relationships in a new way, with yourself, romantic partners, lovers, friends and family members. Even your work relationships. Let's get some major upgrades going on!
I'm not just a coach or therapist but also an expert at helping people be imperfectly human. I use humor and honesty to create safe spaces for people to explore their relationship dynamics without judgement or fear of embarrassment.
In my practice I offer phone/online consultations as well as individual sessions that include couples therapy, marriage counseling and coaching for individuals who want support navigating their relationships better.
My Favorite Things
Travelling — Vietnam. Hands down. The people. The food. The simplicity. The truth of what it is.
my happy place!
The Beach! It's my zone of serenity where all of my best ideas happen. Or no ideas at all. Washes away my day.
Bright colours. Good Food. Gadgets. My kids. My grandbaby. IKOU. Cooking. Hippy-type shit. Walking barefoot. Breaking rules. Sleeping. True Crime.
My Favorite Things
Sunshine. Wayfarers kickstarter semiotics, quinoa godard dreamcatcher hexagon pop-up hoodie.
my guilty pleasure
Ice cream. Microdosing gochujang keffiyeh salvia. Hoodie knausgaard art party.
Photos! Hashtag fashion axe palo santo fanny pack, ramps cornhole messenger bag asymmetrical direct trade slow-carb everyday carry chartreuse tofu godard.
Where I stand on the super important stuff... Agree / disagree?
Nurturing Rituals. Blankets and toys to calm anxiety and sensory overload. Smell the most calming scent - I used it for years in my clinic even though I hate perfume. Pods you can melt into. Luscious organic snowballs. Home Massage and Books. My Childhood Friends.
For Adults and Children. So great for anxiety.
A big huge hug right when you need it.
Female Made. Female Run. Spoil yourself.
This smell keep me calm. My clients love it.
Gorgeous products helping Aussie Farmers.
My grandson loves this. Me too.
Neck, Back, Calf Massage all controlled by you.
Books - my lifelong love
let's work together
I could crap on about myself for days. But - I'd rather tell you that because of my own experience with Childhood Emotional Neglect and the work I've done on myself and others - that I am passionate as hell about helping YOU. I can't wait to be there for you as you learn all sorts of new skills. Mostly - I can't wait to get that text or phone call that says "I get it" My clients are from all over the world. I do only speak English - so there is that - but I consult via Skype, Facetime, Messenger chat and email. Of course I am also available to consult by phone. The best bit - all of these require no change of clothes, no make up and no travelling. A lot of my clients call during lunch or on a walk..
Did we just become best friends?