Are you tired of trying to figure out what is wrong with you and just want to start living the life you choose? Not the one other people have chosen for you or that they will approve of.

I never thought that I could stop feeling flawed, stop attracting people who made me feel shitty about myself AND actually start having an amazing life full of loving relationships - all without breaking the bank or losing my mind. But I finally discovered The Secret! Here's How...I was tired of trying to figure out what was wrong with me and I was ready to just start living. Totally over not enjoying my own life. O...V...E...R   I...T!!!!!! 

I know you are there too and I want you to learn how Childhood Emotional Neglect work can save you years of expensive therapy and all the $ you're tempted to spend on self-help books, weekend retreats and self-development courses just to live the life you’ve been secretly dreaming about.  A life where you have great relationships and are finally free of that feeling that you are flawed in some way.  That you don't belong and that you're different to everyone else.  Probably also a life that does not involve every single weekend being involved in trying to make yourself feel better by heading to another course or group.

My superpower is helping people become the best version of themselves while pursuing the kind of life they actually want.... one with abundant freedom, joy, and peace. 


Straight talk, strong coffee, short emails, data, and cutting out the 'meh' to make room for the very best. Books. Recipes. Calling it what it is. Purple.


Double talk, Weak coffee. Weak drinks, Fluffing around, Small talk and cutting out the truth to maintain the peace. Porridge and food that isn't salty enough. The colour Orange.


Guesting on podcasts, cooking, on coaching calls with my amazing clients, making dinner, disco dancing - complete with disco ball.  Playing the piano and watching lots and lots of true crime.  Reading. 80's music and lying with my head really close to the speakers. Overthinking. 

daily rituals

Strong coffee.  Stalking my insta friends. Cooking.  Thinking about food.  Feeling like I should be more productive. Meditating.  Walking a lot - like a lot - Forrest Gump Style and dreaming of the sushi I used to be able to buy in Melbourne. All the food.  The food. 

My Favorite Things

Travelling — Vietnam.  Hands down.  The people.  The food.  The simplicity.  The truth of what it is. 

my happy place!

The Beach! It's my zone of serenity where all of my best ideas happen.  Or no ideas at all.  Washes away my day.

Bright colour.  Good Food.  Gadgets. My kids. My grandbaby. IKOU. Cooking.  Hippy-type shit. Walking barefoot. Breaking rules. Sleeping. True Crime. 

My Favorite Things

Sunshine. Wayfarers kickstarter semiotics, quinoa godard dreamcatcher hexagon pop-up hoodie.

my guilty pleasure

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Ice cream. Microdosing gochujang keffiyeh salvia. Hoodie knausgaard art party.

Photos! Hashtag fashion axe palo santo fanny pack, ramps cornhole messenger bag asymmetrical direct trade slow-carb everyday carry chartreuse tofu godard.

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“Honestly, this program changed my relationships forever and enriched my whole dang life.”


so they say:

Learning the correct words to describe how you are feeling is just like learning a second language.  And we don't all get it.  I've got a book full of words to help you describe exactly how you are feeling so that other people will be able to "get" you and understand you so much better. 

Emotions 101: Freebie to take your conversations to the next level.

Better than Free Ice Cream!

let's work together

I could crap on about myself for days. But - I'd rather tell you that because of my own experience with Childhood Emotional Neglect and the work I've done on myself and others - that am passionate as hell about helping YOU.  I can't wait to be there for you as you learn all sorts of new skills. Mostly - I can't wait to get that text or phone call that says "I get it" My clients are from all over the world.  I do only speak English - so there is that - but I consult via Skype, Facetime, Messenger chat and email. Of course I am also available to consult by phone. The best bit - all of these require no change of clothes, no make up and no travelling. A lot of my clients call during lunch or on a walk.. 

Did we just become best friends?

I'm Beck, your new get-a-grip friend.

I have personally taken the liberty of living through some crappy stuff, shitty relationships and messed up moments just for this. Meeting YOU and hooking up - to use everything I have learnt to launch your life into a better place.  Where you know you are enough.

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