a life in perfect balance

rebecca chapman  - relationship whisperer



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Do you ever wonder - why your relationships are such a mess - even though you're so successful? Do you get called hard work, too much or difficult?  Should you stay or should you go? Let's make the decision, work out a plan, and get things done.  I work with clients from all over the world - so no excuses :)

Let’s Sort Your Relationships.

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That voice in your head telling you you aren't enough. The damage or flaw that you're so scared other people will find out about. All that energy hiding your real self in your relationships. Or making yourself small just to be "picked".  Afraid of being "needy" Those conversations you are too scared to have. Let's have a long hard chat to that brain of yours, and stop this crap talk and start a new amazing life with me as your wingman/woman. 


— danielle prahL. 
digital creator

"If you want to better any area of your life - especially if you're feeling alone in your struggles, as I often have - don’t hesitate. Best investment you can make in yourself."

If I could help lead you back to the truest version of yourself...
Would you be interested?

Over the last 25 years, I’ve helped hundreds of people start living a life they choose and love. And through this experience, I’ve discovered that a whole lot of people who are successful in most areas of their lives are hiding the fact that their relationships are anything but successful.

Along with that…
  • My clients who have implemented this system have been able to:
  • Save thousands of dollars having therapy that seems to go round in circles. 
  • Burn old belief systems about life, people, love and choices. 
  • Make huge, lasting changes in themselves and their relationships – even though other people won't change. 

So if you’ve been struggling with success in your relationships

If you’ve tried many things that simply haven’t worked…
And if you just want a simple, straightforward, straightforward solution that works…
Then I can help?

What can I do for you?

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Ready to Make Those Tough Choices in Relationships?

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Let's get this party started. You absolutely don't need to do it alone. 

— elena

"She is incredibly intuitive, empathetic, crazy talented and supportive."

— bianca dye Radio TV MC Lightworker @909seafm

"Going through a really difficult breakup and then re entering the world of dating was terrifying for me. And knowing she was on the other end of the phone to keep me sane, and stop me from making really stupid mistakes was an absolute game changer for me"

I'm Rebecca, your new get-a-grip friend.

I have personally taken the liberty of living through some crappy stuff, shitty relationships and messed up moments just for this. Meeting YOU and hooking up - so I can use everything I've learnt, to launch YOUR life into a better place. A place where you know you are enough and have all the tools to have great relationships in all areas of your life.

more about me

hey there!

I recently moved from a big city to a really small country town in Queensland, Australia, and my house is about 5 minutes from a beach. 
Chances are, when I answer you on Insty, that's where I am.  Feet in the sand, staring at the ocean and working out whether or not I want to go in. 
Strange thing here is that the water is really warm - like a bath.  To be honest, it can feel a bit creepy on your skin.  So I don't always go in. 
I'll have food on my clothes for absolute sure and my care factor about that is a big ZERO. 
I'm the mum of 5, step-mum of 2 and nanna of 2. And that means I can't still be 30 which I think I am. 
I hate having my photo taken so  - that pic up there isn't me.  The one down there is. 


Straight talk, strong coffee, short emails, sleeping and chatting.  Books. Cooking. Cookbooks. Calling it what it is. Purple. My kids.  My grandkids.  Pineapple.  World of Warcraft and walking.  My friends.  Giving the finger sometimes. 


Double talk, Weak coffee, Fluffing around, small talk and lying to keep the peace. Porridge (oats) and food that isn't salty enough. The colour Orange. Eeeeh. Controversial I know but - my 70's childhood did me in. Orange overkill. 


With my computer on my lap, cooking, trying to work out where to look on a video call, hiding in my bed, hiding Ubereats receipts, dancing - complete with disco ball.  Playing the piano and watching lots and lots of true crime.  Reality tv (shoot me I know), lying with my head by the speaker - listening to 80's rock. 

daily rituals

Strong coffee.  Stalking my insta friends. Cooking.  Thinking about food.  Notice the theme?  Wondering if I should Botox.  Meditating.  Walking a lot - like a lot - Forrest Gump Style and dreaming of the sushi I used to be able to buy in Melbourne. All the food.  Food. 

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