a life in perfect balance


Marriage falling apart?  I've got you.  

It is just sooooooo tiring. Let go of the idea that you're broken or not enough.  Stop trying to please everyone and ignoring what you want and need.  Stop with endless crappy, confusing relationships. You're not unlovable - even if someone's told you that you are. Let's get you the life YOU want and let's do it now. I 'll get you out of the relationships you don't want and into the ones you do. 


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  I need to get some stuff together - do you feel me? I really need new photos on here. It's around this time of year that we start looking at making changes and all sorts of resolutions. The thing is - none of the external things can change for keeps until we do the inner work. I've been right where you are. But now - my life is so different. And I want that for you. Enough about me - let's get YOU the help you need. 

This actually isn't me.  

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This will change your life & relationships. Did you experience Childhood Emotional Neglect?

— elena

"She is incredibly intuitive, empathetic, crazy talented and supportive."

 I never thought that I could stop feeling flawed. I was attracting people who made me feel shitty about myself. I wanted an amazing life full of loving relationships but wasn't sure I deserved it. And - I needed to do all this without breaking the bank or losing my mind. But I finally discovered a secret! And I want to share it with you.   

I have been in all those situations feeling the exact same things.

but guess what...

Get you updated with all the right emotion words. This helps you  to have clear and direct communication with people in your life.  It's a language that we learn in Childhood and some people just didn't all get those lessons.   It's not your fault it's just a fact. 

When we've been people-pleasing since Childhood  - we never really had the chance to learn what we actually like or want to do.  It can actually be an overwhelming or a scary thought.  We'll deal with this head on - don't stress - I'll be gentle - and get you living the way YOU want to. 

Here's What You'll Learn

We will:

Work out what YOU want:

Again, real life practical tools to deal with the Narcissist in your life without selling your soul.  You will come out with your dignity and their comments will slide like water off a duck's back.  It takes work - but it is absolutely possible. 

Narcissism 101:

Actual real life tools to have all those converations you have been avoiding.  I'm available by text to help you through them as they are happening.  We can look at all the things you are feeling in real time and show you alternative ways to communicate what you need or want.  It will all get so much simpler. 

Relationships.  BOOM


A full and realistic inventory of things which you would like to change so that you feel different.

How do these results sound?

Fill your life with people who "get you"



Attracting relationships which will nurture you.  Learning to receive when you have been the giver. 


Kick that imposter syndrome and self doubt in the booty and feel confident.


Dealing with co-workers or bosses who make your life a living hell. 


let's do it

How It Works

We get together and set clear and achievable goals for your new life. 

First This

We have sessions where we discuss real life situations you need help with.

Then this

The icing on the cake - I only take a few clients - and they can have an add-on to text me between appointments if they need a wingman.  To talk them through.  

then this

"I am now, more than ever, the mother, wife, daughter, sister and friend I always wanted to be but never could. EVERY relationship in my life has benefited from Rebecca's incredibly brilliant work. I could not recommend her highly enough."


got her groove back:

"The process was surprisingly swift, as each appointment lead to a series of tangible breakthroughs within me"



real results

 Every day I woke up, with this feeling in my throat and chest – not having a name for it- but knowing it was going to be Groundhog Day. I'd convince myself that if I tried harder I'd feel better.  But -  I'd get in my own way. Walking around feeling misunderstood and totally blaming myself for everything. Throw in a lot of apologising to people for anything and everything -existing mostly – and something always got in the way of me finding a way forward.  I was really tired. Tired in bits of myself I didn't know could feel so exhausted.

You're stronger than you think you are. But if you're anything like me, you need help to take your life to the next level. You just want someone to tell you what works.

You're in the right place.

"This is your day. This is the time to go after it all.


Find out the exact right terms to use to be understood by people in your life. 

Fill your life with people you love and who love and understand the real you. 

Be able to clearly say what you do and do not want in your life. 

Know deep in your bones that you are enough.  That fatal flaw does not exist.  

Know what say to who.  Know when to say it.  Know how to say it. 

Finally identify how you want to feel.  Make real life plans so you will feel this. 

By the end of this, you will...


"For the first time in my life I felt like I had met someone who just got it, someone with her own experiences and completely free of judgement."

— ANGelica

""For the first time in my life I felt like I had met someone who just got it"

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"This program was the best investment—ever!"

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and another NAME GOES HERE

"This program has gotten me my dream clients!"

I'm Beck, your new get-a-grip friend.

I have personally taken the liberty of living through some crappy stuff, shitty relationships and messed up moments just for this. Meeting YOU and hooking up - so I can use everything I've learnt, to launch YOUR life into a better place.  A place where you know you are enough and have all the tools to have great relationships in all areas of your life.

more about me

hey there!

I was struggling looking in the mirror...

 I never thought that I could stop feeling like something was wrong with me. I was attracting people who made me feel shitty about myself. I saw other people having amazing lives full of loving relationships and I felt like I never would. I needed to fix this but it needed to be affordable and easy.
I was tired of trying to figure out what was wrong with me. It took up all my free time - the time when I should have been living.

I can feel you're there too. And I want to help. Childhood Emotional Neglect work can save you years of expensive therapy. All the $ you’re tempted to spend on the latest self-help books. Or those weekend retreats and self-development courses

but it wasn't always this way.

You got this

I seriously am not special and did not have a magical, mystical experience.  This is totally doable.

Pinky Promise

My friends knew I’d been in therapy although, just between you and me, sometimes I went to therapy and told no one. Those few friends I trusted would ask, “How’s it going?” and I would change the subject. Wham Bam Thank you, Ma’am. I could switch the conversation back to them in a millisecond.
Don’t get me wrong – I knew the therapy helped but in the deepest of down bits, I felt exactly the same.
Turns out – I wasn’t fooling anybody and they could still see that I was not comfortable being myself.
I just want to let you know that I am not talking about a couple of months or even a couple of years of therapy – I started at 15 and I am now – um – ok – I guess we are friends – 54. Every single goddamn one of those years has involved something. And while they have all been amazing and great tools for growth – none got rid of that feeling just below my ribs – the sinking one – you know the one. *points and nods.*

For years, I’d been promising myself that once I felt “normal” I would deserve my better life but buggered (yep – I am Aussie) if I had any idea how to feel normal.

I tried changing my home, my weight, my partners, my hairstyle, my environment.

Nup. No results.

I was looking for other people to decide what my normal was because I had absolutely no idea.

So – I want to tell you what I did and what I learned.

My missions is to save you all the blood, sweat and tears.  Lots of tears. 

Finding out what you need, want and love. 

Building a support system so your feel safe. 

Attracting your dream friends and working on things that light you up. 

Sorting out those difficult relationships in a way that feels true to you. 

Creating and sustaining behaviour that supports and nourishes you.  

Feeling more balanced, and rested, and in alignment with what you're wanting to create for your life.

If you want THIS to be the year that you *finally* commit to:

I'M ready to book

This      for you if:

You need to finally make time for FEELING LIKE YOU BELONG.

You're overwhelmed by this.  shoot me an email. 



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frequently asked questions

I have worked with men, women and children in my past and have found that I can offer the best support to women and couples.  Please check the Psychology Today directory to find an appropriate therapist if you are a man or require help for a child. 

Coaching is an equal partnership between the coach + client where both parties are 100% committed to the client’s success. So - my style is very coaching. Once you've been accepted as a new client - I've got your back.  

Most sessions happen over the phone or via Zoom. Sometimes I will meet local clients for lunch in-person (Covid safely) depending on my availability and travel schedule.

You can even organise text and phone contact BETWEEN appointments so I'll be the BFF in your pocket. 

We'll be a team.  I've got some insights and strategies, but you know you the best. 

Heck yes I do!!!  But I only speak English - so there's that.  The booking system I have will let you check out available time in your timezone.  I know - I'm clever like that. Cough. 

The booking system will also change the currency from AUD to the one that you would like to choose. 

I work Monday to Friday from  7AM TO 8PM. AEST (BRISBANE). I also work on some Saturdays.  But, for my own self-care and mental health and so I can show up as my best self  for my clients,  I have a strict limit on how many clients I see in a day. For this reason, you might see a lot of appointments suddenly disappear on my calendar.  It gets booked up quickly.

Yes you can.  But these appointments are more expensive.  I might have to move other clients around or cancel plans to do this.  

Usually you can't book a same day appointment because I need time to prepare for every appointment. 
Yep - I spend time thinking about my clients before appointments.  A lot.  

If you need help right now - please go to the normal  BOOKING PAGE - you will see an  'I NEED HELP RIGHT NOW'option.  Choose that one. 

Appointments can be cancelled up to 24 hours ahead to receive a refund.  I get it - life happens.  You can cancel them yourself if you have an account (you should have received details in an email) or please just shoot me an email here or SMS here.  

I take most major credit cards and Paypal.  My bank insists I use $AUD but there is a currency converter on the booking page if you need it. (I always do)

I have two options: 30-minutes and 50-minutes. if this is your first appointment, please book the 50-minute sessions so we have heaps of time to get to know each other. however, if finances are tight then just book the 30-minutes and we'll speak twice as fast to fit it all in - just joking. But - I will try my hardest to make it work. 

If after our first session you don't feel that I'm the right person to help you - or if I don't feel like I will be the best person for you - just email me within 7 days and I will refund your payment, 

Absolutely.  Always. 

This depends on your starting point and your goals. Have you been involved in personal growth work for many years or are you just getting started? Each client is unique.

You may work with me anywhere from one session to three months to a whole year. It really depends on whether you’re only looking to resolve something specific or you want to totally transform your life.

You might be a little skeptical. I understand that it can be difficult to know whether coaching or working with ME specifically as your coach will benefit your situation. You’re probably asking yourself… “Will this work or will it just be a waste of money?”

I believe in supporting you to make the right decision based on experience. The first step is to book. Everyone's is scared at first. 

At the end of our first session we can make an informed decision about whether or not we’re a good match to continue working together regularly.

Coaching can completely change your life when there’s a good fit AND when both parties are 100% committed to the process. That means YOU will be required to show up for yourself and do the work

If this is you, LET’S TALK!

Here's a little something I prepared earlier. BOOM.

I understand that sometimes money can be tight and also - life happens. So - I will offer a suggestion for how often I need to see you - but you are the one in the driver's seat. I leave this decision totally up to you. Please, please don't be embarrassed to let me know if you don't have the funds to see me very often.  I've been there too. 

I do.  I have a 5 for the price of 4  offer running at the moment.  Please click here.   If you are having difficulty using your coupons please email me here or try choosing Paypal as a payment method.  I have a wee glitch with Stripe.  If you choose Paypal,  all of the payment requirements will disappear. 

No - I am not covered for Health Insurance. 


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I stand by my promise to take your life and relationships to the next level. But - if you realise I can't serve you after our first appointment.  Then - you will receive a full money-back guarantee.

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