a life in perfect balance

I FIX marriages on the verge of divorce

You're in the right place to get your healing started. 

While you might have noticed that I mostly deal with marriages and relationships - I do also take a limited number of clients who have experienced Childhood Emotional Neglect.  The reason - I had it in my childhood and I know the ways it can show up as an adult - and - I also know how to stop it affecting your life.  Please fill in the contact form below to see if we are a good fit. Make sure you mention CEN. 

So You've DONE THE CHILDHOOD EMOTIONAL NEGLECT QUIZ AND WANT TO KNOW WHAT'S NEXT

We'd love to hear from you! We aim to answer all emails within our normal business hours of M-F, 9-4pm in Australia. 
Use this form or email us at info@alifeinperfectbalance.com

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After seeing Rebecca when my kids were young, and originally going for the kid's allergies we ended up also working on me. It caused profound changes in my life and relationships. I cannot thank Rebecca enough and highly recommend her to anyone. She has a way with kids that sets them at ease and an ability to communicate with them.

"It caused profound changes in my life and relationships"

Heather

I decided to address the hole inside me a little later in life than most might have. Once I was ready, I reached out to Rebecca. The process was surprisingly swift, as each appointment lead to a series of tangible breakthroughs within me, in my work, my personal interactions and, most excitingly, my love life. Transition is a challenge, but knowing that I had the support of someone in my corner, who genuinely cares for my outcome and was so expert and deft at guiding me through, I was able to find and start living my truth. Nowadays, I am sorrowful for my past self, who didn't know how rich it is to engage with the full range of emotions, who didn't understand the strong and detrimental impact of ignoring one's emotions, and who was not yet aware how liberating, vindicating and exciting it is to unleash oneself from the shackles of neglect, and, yes, find true happiness. It is possible, I have lived it - if you are reading this, it's not too late. I am so thankful to you, Rebecca, you have helped me to change everything for myself, and it's worth more than the world to me.

"The process was surprisingly swift, as each appointment led to a series of tangible breakthroughs within me."

Danny

Yes, It Really Works

Before I started seeing Rebecca I was on the verge of a serious and dangerous breakdown. Primarily from lack of sleep due to my son Noah (15 months at that time) who would wake hourly through the night and have violent tantrums which would last over an hour. I had been to sleep school, psychologists, psychiatrists, naturopaths, chiropractors and osteopaths with little improvement that didn't last. I felt hopeless. Rebecca was an absolute Godsend! She began working on Noah and myself, set a clear and simple plan of attack and offered a level of support that I never anticipated. I immediately felt I was back in control and coping well. A few weeks in and I can honestly say I don't know where I would be were it not for Rebecca. She is incredibly intuitive, empathetic, crazy talented and supportive. She is the easiest person to be around...a safe, supportive anchor.
I am now, more than ever, the mother, wife, daughter, sister and friend I always wanted to be but never could. EVERY relationship in my life has benefited from Rebecca's incredibly brilliant work. I could not recommend her highly enough.

"She is incredibly intuitive, empathetic, crazy talented and supportive. She is the easiest person to be around...a safe, supportive anchor."

Elena

Yes, It Really Works

After seeing Rebecca when my kids were young, and originally going for the kid's allergies we ended up also working on me. It caused profound changes in my life and relationships. I cannot thank Rebecca enough and highly recommend her to anyone. She has a way with kids that sets them at ease and an ability to communicate with them.

"It caused profound changes in my life and relationships"

Sue

 Everyone in my family has benefited from Rebecca's most amazing talent. My youngest child Lachlan who is nearly 10 will ask me to ask Rebecca to help when he is finding life a little challenging. He was mauled by a dog whilst at school a couple of years ago and suffered serve night terrors after the incident. To start with we would be up most of the night trying to calm him, yet in the morning he would have no recollection of what had happened. I called on Rebecca for help. After the first session his night terrors reduced from several times a night to one every few days. After a couple of sessions they had gone completed. Not only am I grateful for what Rebecca has done to help; Lachlan often expresses his gratitude for what Rebecca has done and lets me know when he feels he needs more help from Rebecca

"Everyone in my family has benefited from Rebecca's most amazing talent."

Yvonne

Yes, It Really Works

When I first met Rebecca I was suffering from panic attacks which caused debilitating physical and emotional problems. Traditional counselling and doctors had very little effect. With her expertise in a range of therapies I soon found myself not just coping but actually improving. Rebecca has an edge (insight) to quickly get to the heart of problems. What a joy to find someone who ‘gets it!’ I trust Rebecca implicitly and I’m so grateful for the changes she’s brought about in my life.

"Rebecca has an edge (insight) to quickly get to the heart of problems."

Jen

 I first met Rebecca at a time in my life when I was at my lowest. I had battled with depression since I was about 4 years old. I went to her with a very pessimistic attitude. The amount of psychologists and counsellors I had been to in 20 years was more than I could count and it had always resulted in me feeling misunderstood and angry. Rebecca was relatable and down to earth, I couldn't believe how much time and energy she was willing to dedicate to me. For the first time in my life I felt like I had met someone who just got it, someone with her own experiences and completely free of judgement. Someone who believed in me and someone who was in my corner. This woman was my saviour. She taught me more than I could have ever imagined and the impact she has had on me has been life changing. My world has been flipped upside down and the past year has been a lot of hard work but at no point was I ever alone. At 25 years old I am now exactly who and where I want to be. For the first time in my life I am happy and I owe that all to her, my polly pocket!!

"For the first time in my life I felt like I had met someone who just got it, someone with her own experiences and completely free of judgement. Someone who believed in me and someone who was in my corner."

Angelica

Yes, It Really Works

"Rebecca is supportive and extremely knowledgeable about CEN. Rebecca has helped me understand this trauma and how it impacts me. I couldn't ask for a better therapist. The future is looking brighter."

Louise

Yes, It Really Works

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frequently asked questions

I have worked with men, women and children in my past and have found that I can offer the best support to women.  So - I only work with women.  Please check the Psychology Today directory to find an appropriate therapist if you are a man or require help for a child. 

Coaching is an equal partnership between the coach + client where both parties are 100% committed to the client’s success. So - my style is very coaching. Once you've been accepted as a new client - I've got your back.  

Most sessions happen over the phone or via Zoom. Sometimes I will meet local clients for lunch in-person (Covid safely) depending on my availability and travel schedule.

You can even organise text and phone contact BETWEEN appointments so I'll be the BFF in your pocket. 

We'll be a team.  I've got some insights and strategies, but you know you the best. 

Heck yes I do!!!  But I only speak English - so there's that.  The booking system I have will let you check out available time in your timezone.  I know - I'm clever like that. Cough. 

The booking system will also change the currency from AUD to the one that you would like to choose. 

I work Monday to Friday from  7AM TO 8PM. AEST (BRISBANE). I also work on some Saturdays.  But, for my own self-care and mental health and so I can show up as my best self  for my clients,  I have a strict limit on how many clients I see in a day. For this reason, you might see a lot of appointments suddenly disappear on my calendar.  It gets booked up quickly.

Yes you can.  But these appointments are more expensive.  I might have to move other clients around or cancel plans to do this.  

Usually you can't book a same day appointment because I need time to prepare for every appointment. 
Yep - I spend time thinking about my clients before appointments.  A lot.  

If you need help right now - please go to the normal  BOOKING PAGE - you will see an  'I NEED HELP RIGHT NOW'option.  Choose that one. 

Appointments can be cancelled up to 24 hours ahead to receive a refund.  I get it - life happens.  You can cancel them yourself if you have an account (you should have received details in an email) or please just shoot me an email here or SMS here.  


I work with people in marriages or long-term relationships.  So - yes - I work with LGBTQI.

I have worked with people from many different religions and cultures. 

I have two options: 30-minutes and 50-minutes. if this is your first appointment, please book the 50-minute sessions so we have heaps of time to get to know each other. however, if finances are tight then just book the 30-minutes and we'll speak twice as fast to fit it all in - just joking. But - I will try my hardest to make it work. 

If after our first session you don't feel that I'm the right person to help you - or if I don't feel like I will be the best person for you - just email me within 7 days and I will refund your payment, 

Absolutely.  Always. 

No - you don't.  In fact, although I've been married twice, my longest relationship has been 12 years of UNMARRIED bliss.  As long as you are in a committed relationship...I've gotcha. 
If your partner won't attend, that's fine too.  We'll start with just you. 
This is all about your relationship and YOU get to decide if you want separate sessions, a mixture or separate and together and anything in between.  

You might be a little skeptical. I understand that it can be difficult to know whether coaching or working with ME specifically as your coach will benefit your situation. You’re probably asking yourself… “Will this work or will it just be a waste of money?”

I believe in supporting you to make the right decision based on experience. The first step is to book. Everyone's is scared at first. 

At the end of our first session we can make an informed decision about whether or not we’re a good match to continue working together regularly.

Coaching can completely change your life when there’s a good fit AND when both parties are 100% committed to the process. That means YOU will be required to show up for yourself and do the work

If this is you, LET’S TALK!

Here's a little something I prepared earlier. BOOM.

I understand that sometimes money can be tight and also - life happens. So - I will offer a suggestion for how often I need to see you - but you are the one in the driver's seat. I leave this decision totally up to you. Please, please don't be embarrassed to let me know if you don't have the funds to see me very often.  I've been there too. 

I do.  I have a 5 for the price of 4  offer running at the moment.  Please click here.   If you are having difficulty using your coupons please email me here or try choosing Paypal as a payment method.  I have a wee glitch with Stripe.  If you choose Paypal,  all of the payment requirements will disappear. 

No - I am not covered for Health Insurance. 

Everyone. 

Simple answer  YES.