I'm going to go big here and offer a final chance to get life sorted for you.
I'm going to go big here and a final chance to get 2021 sorted.
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HELL YES - I'M IN
I need to get some stuff together - do you feel me? In this case it is getting photos but it is around this time of year that we start looking at making physical changes and all sorts of New Years Resolutions. The thing is - none of the external things can really change for keeps until we do the inner work. I've been right where you are and my life is so incredibly different from where it was that you wouldn't believe it if I told you. Enough about me - I want to help YOU.
This actually isn't me.
Ready for your life to change?
I used spend most days thinking I needed to change myself.
I used spend all my time thinking I needed to change myself.
You might be dealing with a Narcissist and finding you are always hitting a brick wall and feeling like you are the crazy one.
You might have realised that you are still holding some of the effects of not feeling like you belong in your family. Maybe they just never "got" you.
You might have thought about leaving your job to follow something that you really love- but you get that tightness in the chest from even thinking about it.
You want to change the people who you attract. Do you find yourself in a relationship you know you need to leave or maybe just a relationship that is so-so, not bad but not feeding your soul.
But You don't. Maybe just some thoughts and behaviours but not you.
I never thought that I could stop feeling flawed, stop attracting people who made me feel shitty about myself AND actually start having an amazing life full of loving relationships – all without breaking the bank or losing my mind. But I finally discovered a secret! And I want to share it with you.
Get you updated with all the right emotional vocab to have clear and direct communication with people in your life. It is a language that is taught in Childhood and some people just didn't all get those lessons. It's not a fault it is just a fact.
When we've been people-pleasing since Childhood - we never really had the chance to learn what we actually like or want to do. It can actually be an overwhelming or a scary thought. We'll deal with this head on - don't stress - I'll be gentle - and get you living the way YOU want to.
Again, real life practical tools to deal with the Narcissist in your life without selling your soul. You will come out with your dignity and their comments will slide like water off a duck's back. It takes work - but it is absolutely possible.
Actual real life tools to have all those converations you have been avoiding. I'm available by text to help you through them as they are happening. We can look at all the things you are feeling in real time and show you alternative ways to communicate what you need or want. It will all get so much simpler.
LET'S BREAK it DOWN
A full and realistic inventory of things which you would like to change so that you feel different in 2021. Calmer more resilient.
How do these results sound?
Fill your life with people who "get you"
Attracting relationships which will nurture you. Learning to receive when you have been the giver.
Kick that imposter syndrome and self doubt in the booty and feel confident.
Dealing with co-workers or bosses who make your life a living hell.
let's do it
We get together and set clear and achievable goals for your new life.
We have 6 sessions (one free) where we discuss real life situations you need help with.
The icing on the cake - I only take a few clients - and they can have an add-on to text me between appointments if they need a wingman. To talk them through.
"I am now, more than ever, the mother, wife, daughter, sister and friend I always wanted to be but never could. EVERY relationship in my life has benefited from Rebecca's incredibly brilliant work. I could not recommend her highly enough."
"The process was surprisingly swift, as each appointment lead to a series of tangible breakthroughs within me"
Every day I woke up, with this feeling in my throat and chest – not having a name for it- but knowing it was going to be Groundhog Day. I'd convince myself that if I tried harder I'd feel better. But - I'd get in my own way. Walking around feeling misunderstood and totally blaming myself for everything. Throw in a lot of apologising to people for anything and everything -existing mostly – and something always got in the way of me finding a way forward. I was really tired. Tired in bits of myself I didn't know could feel so exhausted.
You're stronger than you think you are. But if you're anything like me, you need help to take your life to the next level. You just want someone to tell you what works.
You're in the right place.
"This is your day. This is the time to go after it all.
"For the first time in my life I felt like I had met someone who just got it, someone with her own experiences and completely free of judgement."
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I'm Beck, your new get-a-grip friend.
I have personally taken the liberty of living through some crappy stuff, shitty relationships and messed up moments just for this. Meeting YOU and hooking up - so I can use everything I've learnt, to launch YOUR life into a better place. A place where you know you are enough and have all the tools to have great relationships in all areas of your life.
I was struggling looking in the mirror...
I never thought that I could stop feeling flawed, stop attracting people who made me feel shitty about myself AND actually start having an amazing life full of loving relationships – all without breaking the bank or losing my mind.
I was tired of trying to figure out what was wrong with me and I was ready to just start living. Totally over not enjoying my own life. O…V…E…R I…T!!!!!! Insert appropriate emoji.
I know you're there too and I want you to learn how Childhood Emotional Neglect work can save you years of expensive therapy and all the $ you’re tempted to spend on self-help books. weekend retreats and self-development courses just to live the life you’ve been secretly dreaming about.
but it wasn't always this way.
You got this
My friends knew I’d been in therapy although, just between you and me, sometimes I went to therapy and told no one. Those few friends I trusted would ask, “How’s it going?” and I would change the subject. Wham Bam Thank you, Ma’am. I could switch the conversation back to them in a millisecond.
Don’t get me wrong – I knew the therapy helped but in the deepest of down bits, I felt exactly the same.
Turns out – I wasn’t fooling anybody and they could still see that I was not comfortable being myself.
I just want to let you know that I am not talking about a couple of months or even a couple of years of therapy – I started at 15 and I am now – um – ok – I guess we are friends – 54. Every single goddamn one of those years has involved something. And while they have all been amazing and great tools for growth – none got rid of that feeling just below my ribs – the sinking one – you know the one. *points and nods.*
For years, I’d been promising myself that once I felt “normal” I would deserve my better life but buggered (yep – I am Aussie) if I had any idea how to feel normal.
I tried changing my home, my weight, my partners, my hairstyle, my environment.
Nup. No results.
I was looking for other people to decide what my normal was because I had absolutely no idea.
So – I want to tell you what I did and what I learned.
My missions is to save you all the blood, sweat and tears. Lots of tears.
Finding out what you need, want and love.
Building a support system so your feel safe.
Attracting your dream friends and working on things that light you up.
Sorting out those difficult relationships in a way that feels true to you.
Creating and sustaining behaviour that supports and nourishes you.
Feeling more balanced, and rested, and in alignment with what you're wanting to create for your life.
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