a life in perfect balance

rebecca chapman  - relationship whisperer

Welcome to my Blog

Hey there to you. Welcome to my Margarita-style blog.  We like it salty and sweet here.  Salty language but with sweet truths. Cannot wait to hear if you have any topics you'd like me to cover or even your comments.  Let's do this

Here's The latest posts:

I like it salty and sweet

gf wants to change me #gf won’t change #how end relationship #how to be assertive without being aggressive #how to communicate in a relationship #husband won’t change #my boyfriend doesn’t meet my needs reddit #my boyfriend doesn’t prioritize me reddit #partner change #relationship #relationship advice\ #relationship anxiety #relationship books #relationship break #relationship building skills

I know, I know…you just want to help them.  Your motives are pure….(hmm we can talk about that another day).

You want nothing more than to show them what you see so clearly about them.

But it will mess up your relationship.

Good relationships are horizontal.  One line right next to another.  No line higher than the other.

Want to know how to help your partner change? Read this first.

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marriage money problems

I must be feeling really comfy around you – because I’m going to follow up yesterday’s email on my habit of cheating with another really anti-social habit I have.I don’t share well with others.My sister got so pissed about it when we were kids ( about 6 and 3 so it’s obviously been a “thing” […]

First I Tell You I Cheat – Then I Tell You This!

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deal-breaker

I’ve been sitting here for 45 minutes – I kid you not – trying to come up with a witty or funny story to start this email with.And damn it – I can’t.But we’re friends now – yes – and you can understand that I’ve had a full-on day with clients and just kinda want […]

Did I Mention That My Parents Had to Hate Them?

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