a life in perfect balance

rebecca chapman  - relationship whisperer

Welcome to my Blog

Hey there to you. Welcome to my Margarita-style blog.  We like it salty and sweet here.  Salty language but with sweet truths. Cannot wait to hear if you have any topics you'd like me to cover or even your comments.  Let's do this

Here's The latest posts:

I like it salty and sweet

Break up with a Narcissist

One more internet search for “Breaking up with a Narcissist” and you found me – viola – I’ve been waiting for you. Let’s get started. I’ve got your back as we rediscover who you are and what you want. You deserve to be free, happy, and loved. Let me help you leave the narcissist behind and embrace a brighter future.

Really Scared to Get Out of a Destructive Narcissistic Relationship?

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end my marriage

I’m going to hit you with a set of clues, and you can decide which one was the decider for my 1st marriage ending: Choosing “Hard to Say I’m Sorry” as our wedding song- the lyrics “everybody needs a little time away” Me saying “It’s not my fault you are such a stupid human being” […]

The Eye-Opening Day Bruce Willis Ended My 10 Year Marriage

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feeling alone in my relationship

The weather is pretty shitty today – here in Queensland.  Dark, rainy – just glum really. If a day could have an emotion – and I like to think they do – today is lonely. How do I know – well, I spent a hell of a lot of my childhood lonely.  Mostly because I […]

Why am I so crazy lonely and confused when I’ve got a partner?

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I know, I know…you just want to help them.  Your motives are pure….(hmm we can talk about that another day).

You want nothing more than to show them what you see so clearly about them.

But it will mess up your relationship.

Good relationships are horizontal.  One line right next to another.  No line higher than the other.

Want to know how to help your partner change? Read this first.

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marriage money problems

I must be feeling really comfy around you – because I’m going to follow up yesterday’s email on my habit of cheating with another really anti-social habit I have.I don’t share well with others.My sister got so pissed about it when we were kids ( about 6 and 3 so it’s obviously been a “thing” […]

First I Tell You I Cheat – Then I Tell You This!

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deal-breaker

I’ve been sitting here for 45 minutes – I kid you not – trying to come up with a witty or funny story to start this email with.And damn it – I can’t.But we’re friends now – yes – and you can understand that I’ve had a full-on day with clients and just kinda want […]

Did I Mention That My Parents Had to Hate Them?

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