a life in perfect balance

rebecca chapman  - relationship whisperer

Welcome to my Blog

Hey there to you. Welcome to my Margarita-style blog.  We like it salty and sweet here.  Salty language but with sweet truths. Cannot wait to hear if you have any topics you'd like me to cover or even your comments.  Let's do this

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healing childhood emotional neglect

  Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN) is what didn’t happen to you or for you when you were a kid. The stuff that you needed to properly prepare you for life. It’s when parents don’t meet their children’s emotional needs. And – the problems caused by this can be long-term and last way into adulthood. If […]

How to do the 2nd Amazing Step That Heals Childhood Emotional Neglect.

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3rd step to healing Childhood Emotional Neglect

3rd Step to Healing Childhood Emotional Neglect. Childhood Emotional Neglect, or “CEN” for short, is a term coined by Dr. Karyl McBride. It’s the emotional neglect of children that occurs in families where at least one parent is emotionally unavailable due to their own unresolved childhood trauma and/or addiction issues. I’m assuming you’ve done my […]

Are You Ready For The 3rd Step to Healing Childhood Emotional Neglect?

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ealing Emotional Neglect

Healing Emotional Neglect: The First Step. Estimated reading time: 11 minutes   “Hey, Mum!” I exclaimed as I opened the door. I was greeted with silence and frowned.  The house seemed empty, and cold and dirty dishes were piled up in the sink. The living room had clothes drying everywhere, and dust particles floating through […]

The First Step to Healing Childhood Emotional Neglect.

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Narcissistic Mothers: What to watch or read.

Hi. My name is Rebecca and I was addicted to getting my mother’s love and attention. “Hi Rebecca”. I’m not the only one, and you’re not either. You’ve landed in the right place, and I’m so glad you did. You’re among friends. We’ve all been addicted to trying to win our mother’s love at some […]

Narcissistic Mother Nightmare- The Best Practical Guide on What to Actually Watch or Read?

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Withdrawal

  A short time between posts. Withdrawal seems to move quickly directly after I drop a whole capsule and then ease up. Unfortunately, every time I drop the dose, new symptoms emerge and detoxing is an absolutely new beast. When you read what I say, you need to remember that I have done this before. So it […]

Withdrawal stuff and nonsense…3.

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My parents neglect me

My parents neglect me?  Childhood Emotional Neglect is a thing? Hold on a second Sunshine, before you click away. I can see your finger ready to click on the mouse. Cease and desist. I want to tell you a secret.   The most common thing I hear from my clients is…TaDa…   “Nothing was really wrong […]

My Parents Neglect Me? Please Explain Girl! My Parents Loved Me.

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